He texted his ex a Valentine’s Day message

Stay warm today. If you’re bored, sign up for the Love Letters newsletter. And get your tickets for April 3. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and three months. We split up in the middle due to distance, however we got back together and are now living in the same place. On Valentine’s Day, I noticed a notification on his phone from his ex-fiancée. They broke up three years ago. It led me to look into it further, and I found that he has been messaging her pretty much the whole time we have been back together. She’s in a different country, so I know he isn’t physically cheating, but I found messages of him saying he “misses her.” They have been scheduling video calls, there are messages with him talking about how he had a dream about her … and then I found a happy Valentine’s Day message sent by him. I hate that I went snooping, but when I saw her name and the message, it left me with such a horrible feeling that I had to see what was up. I’m not sure what to do. We had a messy breakup before and he put a lot of effort into getting back together, but lately I have felt that he’s not working as hard to maintain our relationship. I don’t want to lose him, but I feel kind of like a second option at the minute, as opposed to a priority, which was what… [Read full story]

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